Courtship, it’s quite a complex situation. Because people have different expectations and different beliefs. Some people take courtship very seriously, while others believe it’s more of a casual ordeal. But there are those who badly want to be in a relationship, to be with someone who makes their heart flutter. Who wouldn’t want that, right? But at the end of the day, how far would one go to be in a relationship?

Or the bigger question is, will you really sacrifice your standards over a guy? It’s puzzling why when a girl does not have a boyfriend, some assume it’s because the girl has unrealistic standards. But has anyone ever wondered or pondered, why should the girl adjust? Why should she sacrifice her ideal set-up for a guy? Isn’t she worth more than what others believe is a “pwede na yan” standard when it comes to her manliligaws? At the end of the day, bakit ang nililigawan ang kailangan mag-adjust?

Here are 10 reasons why you should stop telling girls, “masyadong mataas ang standards mo kaya wala kang boyfriend“:

1. She Knows What She Wants

If a girl knows what she wants in a guy, nobody has the right to tell her otherwise. Remember at the end of the day, they’ll be the one involved in a relationship, not you. So give her the freedom to pick a guy that’s right for her.