Now that we have social media, and people are more vocal, more opinions and statements are thrown. It’s great that many have the freedom to exert their opinion, it means more opportunity to learn from each other. But there are those who tend to be abusive, and use their freedom of expression to put down other people rather than build them up. And it’s very likely that in your 20s, many are extra critical. People think that it’s their “make or break” phase in life.
But you have to learn to filter these voices, and know what and who are substantial to you and your growth as a person. You don’t need to swallow everything everyone says, you have your own right to accept your own decisions and learn from constructive criticisms.