Relationships are tricky, it takes two people who probably barely know themselves to try to figure out another person. It takes compromise and sacrifice all in the hopes that it would be worth it. But sometimes our happily ever after isn’t exactly how we pictured it, and we shouldn’t blame ourselves for why anyone would consider cheating on us. Cheating is cheating, no matter how you go about it. There’s no changing or redefining something that is a basic before entering into a relationship. Here are eight reasons to remind you why you shouldn’t give your significant other a second chance if he or she cheated on you:

1. They Knew It Was Wrong But They Still Did It

No matter how much you try and convince yourself, you know for a fact that it doesn’t take a scientist to figure out that cheating is wrong, so no matter what they say, the end point is they still chose to do it. Yes cheating is a choice.