In your 30s, you will achieve a lot, you will also fail in a lot of things. But there is nothing wrong with failure, because at the end of the day nobody is perfect. Do keep in mind if you have personal things you need to work on, so does your possible partner. It’s not impossible that he too have a few things to sort out with regards to financial stability or career. The important thing is you both have the effort to improve on your flaws.